Seeing men laugh who came in crying is what motivates us: Andys Man Clubs are here to help

Men coming in crying and leaving with laughter is what drives the mission of Andy’s Man Clubs, a network of safe spaces dedicated to supporting men’s mental health and well-being. Andy Beattie, a facilitator at one of the four clubs in West Lothian, emphasises the importance of providing a welcoming environment for men to open up about their struggles. The clubs, located in Broxburn, Bathgate, Armadale, and Livingston, offer a non-judgmental space for men to share their feelings and experiences.

Over the years, Andy has witnessed the transformative impact of the clubs on men who initially felt lost and overwhelmed. From broken and tearful beginnings to gradually regaining confidence and finding joy in life again, the journey of these men exemplifies the power of support and understanding. Andy highlights that the facilitators themselves have experienced their own challenges and use their learnings to help others navigate through difficult times.

The inspiration behind Andy’s Man Club stems from the tragic loss of Andrew Roberts, a young man who died by suicide in 2016. In his memory, loved ones established the club to create a platform for men to connect, share, and heal together. As the clubs brace for an increase in participation during the winter months and festive season, efforts are being made to expand venues and accommodate more attendees.

One unique aspect of Andy’s Man Clubs is the emphasis on confidentiality, respect, and the freedom to communicate at one’s own pace. Men are welcome to attend any club without the need for formal registration or referrals. The clubs provide a supportive environment where men can choose to speak or simply listen, knowing that their words will be kept confidential within the group.

As Andy reflects on the positive transformations he has witnessed in men attending the clubs, he underscores the importance of creating a space where laughter can replace tears and where every individual feels seen, heard, and valued. Men seeking support can easily locate their nearest club through the club’s website and are encouraged to attend sessions starting at 7pm with doors opening at 6.30pm for a warm cup of tea and a listening ear.

In conclusion, Andy’s Man Clubs serve as a beacon of hope for men facing mental health challenges, offering a supportive community where vulnerability is welcomed, and healing is a collective journey. Through shared experiences, empathy, and a commitment to well-being, these clubs empower men to navigate life’s ups and downs with strength, resilience, and a sense of belonging.